How Many Times Do I Tap?
This is definitely one of the frequently asked questions: How many times should I tap on each point? And it’s a great question, especially when you are first learning how to tap. Before I took the different levels of EFT training, I learned how to tap from watching videos and reading blog posts and websites. The most common advice I saw was to tap between 3 and 7 times on each point. This makes it pretty easy to remember while you are first learning. Advice from EFT tapping founder Gary Craig is this: “You tap approximately 5 times on each point. No need to count the taps because anywhere between 3 and 7 taps on each point is adequate. The only exception is during the Setup step where the (Side of the Hand) Point is tapped continuously while you repeat some standard wording.”
What I quickly discovered, and you probably will too, is that the number of times we tap on each point is not critical. It doesn’t have to be the same number each round and it doesn’t need to be the same number of times at each point. It can be as many times as it takes to say your reminder phrase. It can even be zero if you are simply touching and breathing at each point.
The important thing is that you are gently stimulating the energy lines on the body, sending your brain the message that all is well and that it is safe to relax. Once you do several rounds of tapping, just like Gary Craig says, you’ll realize you don’t need to count the taps at all. Focus on what is bothering you and let the tapping action become natural to you.
Tapping on a point more times is not necessarily better but it won’t hurt, either. It all depends on you and what feels right for you for the issue that you are dealing with at that moment. If your reminder statements are long, you’ll be tapping longer. But trust yourself and the process. EFT tapping is a very powerful and flexible tool.
While we’re talking specifics, another related question people ask me is “How hard should I tap?” The pressure is up to you, but I recommend tapping gently, especially around the eye points. These are sensitive points along our energy lines and do not need hard pressure in order for tapping to work. Tapping harder is not going to make it work better. Remember that you can also achieve great results by simply touching these points during your reminder statements. Maybe try both and see what feels right for you.
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